This article is in conjunction with my podcast episode: HelpYourself by Helping Others:
Here is a list of good deeds that can be easy to do and can really enrich the lives of those around us. Apologies if there are repeats.
Good deeds
- Make a double-batch of something delicious and freezable and give it to a neighbour
- Buy a bag of good groceries, things you’d normally buy for yourself – and donate it to your local food bank or shelter.
- Cut an armload of fresh flowers from your garden and bring them to your local nursing home
- Bring your well-behaved dog for a visit at a local nursing home.
- Hold the door for people behind you
- Volunteer at a local breakfast program.
- Bring someone a plant or some fresh flowers.
- Make soup for a friend recovering from surgery or an illness.
- Take your sibling's/friend’s kids out for the day
- Put together a basket of treats for a friend who had a death in the family. Deliver it after the funeral has taken place, when most friends have gone back to their day-to-day lives.
- Drive your grandparents, elderly parents and their friends to church, doctor's appointments or the movies.
- Volunteer for a charity.
- Offer to take care of a neighbour's pet when they go away on a small vacation.
- Make dinner for friends with a newborn baby
- Pay for the person behind you at the drive-thru.
- Help someone who looks lost with directions.
- Donate your used clothes and housewares to charity.
- Help an elderly person off the bus or cross the road by offering to take their arm or carry their packages.
- Bring your old magazines to a hospital waiting room
- Write a letter or e-mail to a good friend or family member to let them know how much you value them.
- Volunteer yourself to walk an elderly neighbour's dog once a week.
- Pass on your books after you've read them for someone else to enjoy. Take them to a local shelter or give them to friends.
- If you've discovered a great little restaurant or store, spread the word and write reviews.
- Surprise your unsuspecting spouse with breakfast in bed.
- When you come across a two for one deal, donate your free product to a local shelter.
- Allot yourself a set amount of compliments to dole out a day.
- Volunteer to do your parents/grandparents' grocery shopping for them every few weeks
- Feed parking metres that you notice are about to expire.
- Next time you do your grocery shopping, pick up a large bag of cat or dog food to donate to a local animal shelter.
- Help a friend in need. Volunteer for an hour at an organization of your choice.
- Save electricity by unplugging your devices when not in use.
- Buy a gift for your mother or grandmother – just because.
- Allow a fellow driver to merge into your lane.
- Write a thank-you note to someone who won’t expect it.
- Find unneeded items in your house and donate them to a charitable organization.
- Plant a tree.
- Think of something you do well, and use your talent to benefit others – for example performing magic tricks at a children’s hospital or playing music at a nursing home.
- Teach an elderly person to use a computer to surf the Internet or write e-mails.
- Organize a family meal and appreciate being together.
- Collect stuffed animals or toys from family members, friends, and neighbors and donate them to an organization that helps children.
- When you are outside, stop and look around you. Take time to appreciate nature.
- Find a piece of winter clothing that you haven’t worn all season, and donate it to a charity.
- Donate an old cell phone.
- Use both sides of the paper before throwing it away.
- Offer to cook or clean for the family of someone who has recently given birth.
- Think of at least three things you should be thankful for in your life.
- Plant a vegetable garden and donate the vegetables to a food pantry.
- Collect duffle bags, overnight bags, and suitcases from friends and donate them to organizations who help children in foster care.
- Donate blood.
- Save articles about people performing acts of kindness as a source of inspiration and motivation for you and your family.
- Decide to make one change in yourself that will make you a better person.
- Swallow your pride and apologize for something you’ve done – whether big or small.
- Take part in a literacy program, to help children or adults learn to read.
- Return a phone call you have been putting off.
- Answer the phone in a cheerful voice.
- Hold a charity day at work. Encourage your colleagues and supervisors to bring in non-perishable items to be donated to a worthy cause.
- Turn the tap off when you’re shaving, brushing your teeth, or scrubbing the dishes.
- Adopt a shelter animal.
- Switch your light bulbs to the energy-efficient variety.
- Ask a loved one about their day.
- Praise a colleague’s good work.
- Leave some extra money in a vending machine.
- Write a thank you letter to your parents.
- Compliment a stranger.
- Ask someone “How are you?” and listen.
- Hug a loved one for no particular reason.
- Make breakfast for your partner or housemate.
- Offer someone your seat on public transport.
- Stop and have a conversation with a homeless person.
- Buy an inspiring book for a friend.
- Leave your favorite book in a public place with a note.
- Donate books to your local library.
- Volunteer at a soup kitchen.
- Pay for the person behind you at the drive thru.
- Pay for a complete stranger’s meal at a restaurant.
- Leave a $5 note on a random petrol pump.
- Buy flowers for the cashier at the grocery store.
- Send anonymous flowers to a colleague.
- Leave a funny or kind note in an unexpected place.
- Invite a friend over for a home cooked meal.
- Let someone jump ahead of you in line.
- Give a lottery ticket to a stranger.
- Run an errand for someone.
- Send a random person in your phone contacts a small gift.
- Send your sibling a small gift.
- Introduce yourself to someone new.
- Tell a loved one how much you appreciate them.
- Hold the door for someone.
- Treat a friend to a movie or concert.
- Walk a friend’s dog.
- Call a friend you haven’t called in a while.
- Donate to a local charity or event.
- Spend quality time with family and friends.
- Thank the cooks and staff personally.
- Put a tip in a street musician’s jar.
- Distract a random screaming baby by pulling random funny faces (smiles count).
- Clean your neighbour’s yard
- Thank the salesperson who helped you
- Buy an extra can of food to donate to a food drive or food bank
- Help someone find a lost pet
- Bring flowers to patients in the hospital or to the nurses' station
- Weed a community garden
- Prepare food for firemen or policemen who have to work on a holiday.
- Put out a bird feeder for the winter birds
- Put an encouraging note in your child’s or partners' lunch bag.
- Be the designated driver and make sure your friends celebrate safely
- Smile at a random stranger – smiles are contagious
- Ask someone to give a donation in your name instead of a gift
- Pick up trash in a park or at the beach
- Donate your hair to Locks of Love
- Donate to your local school to help a child pay for their school trip
- Put your change in a donation box when you shop
- Donate blood or join the bone marrow registry
- Buy a meal for a homeless person
- Bring a cake or treats to work
- Take public transportation or carpool instead of driving to work
- Tell the manager about an employee who gave great customer service
- Donate school supplies for children in homeless shelters
- Volunteer at a senior center or nursing home
- Hold the door open for the person behind you especially if they are carrying bags.
- Sign up for a CPR course, you never know when you might need it
- Bring a meal over to someone who just left the hospital
- Donate clothing to goodwill or a clothing drive.
- Give up your seat on the subway or bus to someone who needs it
- Sign up to be an organ donor
- Go to an animal shelter and play with the animals
- Donate period products to a shelter for abused women
- Offer to babysit for a new parent
- Donate old eyeglasses to an organization that will reuse them
- Recycle plastic bottles, paper and whatever else is collectible
- Help a friend move - even if there are stairs
- Shovel out your neighbour's walkway or mow their lawn
- Save the mini shampoo bottles and soaps from a hotel stay and donate them to a shelter
- Walk or run for a cause
- Bring a welcoming gift to a new neighbour
- Turn the lights off anytime you leave the room to save energy
- Help someone change a flat tire
- Return shopping carts at the grocery store and leave the quarter in it for the next person
- Give books to a street library
- Leave a server a generous tip before a holiday
